If you’re black and getting back into the singles game, it can be tough to figure out which dating network is going to have the best returns for you. Really, it comes down to what you’re most attracted to. For me, I’m more into dating black girls. I’ve dated white girls, latina girls, and an asian girl before, and for some reason, I just can’t seem to stay interested. Because of that, my main priority was finding a site where black people were the standard, instead of just finding one or two per page.
I tried out a couple of the “big” networks, Fling and AdultFriendFinder. I also spent some time on Plenty of Fish. For some reason, it was really hard to find black girls on those sites that were interested in dating black guys. Most of the girls I messaged told me they were looking to date outside the race, which is cool I guess, whatever works for you. On top of that, I was getting messages from some straight-up shameless white girls who wanted to hook up with me just because I’m black. Again, cool if that’s your thing, but I’m looking for a fine black girl, so those sites were just a waste of time for me.
I checked out 3 different black dating websites, and 2 of them were pretty dead. If I had wanted to meet up with any of the girls on there, I would have been in for a long drive. The one that ended up working for me was BlackPeopleMeet.com. I’ll post more about my experience with them later, but if you don’t want to wait, you can click here to go to their site and sign up for a free profile.